What to Do When Your Child Says Hurtful Things to You

when your child says hurtful things to you

When your child says hurtful things to you, they probably just need attention, love, or support. Younger kids especially are still learning how to express their internal needs, wants and wishes, while an older child might want to manifest their independence. Children demand attention, and get it by saying all those mean things. They are testing boundaries to see what works with their parents and what doesn’t.